I read today that the third week of March is officially deemed "Clutter
Awareness Week." I have no idea who names these observances, nor how the
public is informed of these illustrious events. Most of my clients suffer
from clutter, and no matter how aware they become of it, they still don't
know what to do about it.
In homes and offices, you know how to recognize clutter. It comes in the
form of nomadic hair clips on the kitchen counter, mysterious socks on the
desk, accumulating outdated coupons, or multiplying ghastly gifts you've
been given but feel guilty tossing. Clutter, as I define it, is an
assortment of "unknowns." These "unknowns" are undefined because they
either a) have no "home", b) are incomplete tasks, or c) require a
decision.
The reasons why people have difficulty clearing clutter are the very
reasons the items have become clutter in the first place! Clutter
collectors may have never defined "homes" for the items to live, or are
dodging the discipline of returning items to their appropriate homes.
Sometimes, paper or items must be assembled from different locations to
complete a project (like tax documents or scattered craft supplies). Other
times, physical clutter and paper clutter develops because of
procrastination. We tend to put off unsavory tasks, or those that force us
to render a decision. Quite simply, if we don't know what to do with
something, we often just set it aside.
From time to time, the clutter bug must pay the piper for the nasty little
clutter habit. Usually, this comes in the form of missed deadlines from
that mounting paper pile or fruitless searching for an item of value
amidst the sea of creeping clutter. At this time, the clutter bug has
reached what I call "the point of pain." A decision to face the "unknowns"
is made. It would be more painful, the collector determines, to stay
buried in clutter, than to dig out from the chaos. After reaching the
"point of pain," I've seen many clients tackle their clutter successfully.
The first step is to define a "home" for every type of item within
the household. Once we know that all hair products live in
bathrooms, we must devise a system for returning nomadic hair clips and
sprays and combs to those locations. Once we've determined that all sports
equipment will live in the garage, we must commit to steering all such
equipment in that direction. Paper tends to morph throughout the house, so
we settle on one or two processing areas for different kinds of paper,
usually a receiving area, and a final destination. To assign a home to
every item in the home is not as overwhelming as it seems. Determining
what kinds of activities should happen in each room can aid in this
process, because the items that serve those activities will automatically
be assigned a nearby location. Then, the process of deduction and common
sense can be used to resolve the remaining "unknown" items without homes.
This is where many clients find the expert help of Restoring Order®
to be an invaluable service.
The second step is to list the projects or tasks that are
represented by the creeping clutter and schedule them. If craft
and hobby supplies keep popping up in a clutter pile, it is reasonable to
conclude that either they don't have a home, they are not being returned
to their proper home, or they are not being used. Perhaps it is time to
retire that craft, or schedule a time to work on it. If advertisements are
consistently laying around the house, they may be representing our good
intentions to redeem a coupon, attend a sale, or purchase an item.
Whatever the case, we should schedule that task, or let ourselves off the
hook in the future. If paper clutter is a huge issue, it may mean it's
time to schedule a few sessions with Restoring Order®
to institute a sorely needed filing system.
The last, and most challenging step, is to make a decision about
the individual items we find forming our clutter. This is a
psychological obstacle for some. Letting go may mean staring down our
guilt about not having used a gift we were given, or a size that no longer
fits. Giving ourselves permission to clear out that which is no longer
important makes room in our life for what IS important to us. And that is
what organizing is all about.