
Motherhood has been such a stretching, joyful, exhausting, poetic experience for me, as I’m sure it is for legions of mothers before me. I’m humbled by the new respect and awe I have for all the mothers who have preceded me in this brave role of motherhood. Mothers can balance a baby on the hip while simultaneously unloading the dishwasher, catching some spit up, running a load of laundry, closing a business deal on the phone, and forming a grocery list for the following week in the back of their minds. I know this because I live every day in this crazy state of multi-tasking, yet I am committed to savoring those sleeping belly-laugh moments. I want to make sure that I don’t get so caught up in the balancing act that I neglect to look for and relish the treasures along the way.
Even
though my motherhood journey isn’t very far along, and I haven’t written
down any milestones in a fancy scrapbook, I have captured many moments
in my heart. For all the mothers out there, I want to give you a simple
gift. My gift to you is a poem, born in my heart and home. Regardless of
whether your children are toddlers, teens, or adults, all mothers
remember their babies. My guess is even when I am old I will look in my
child’s face and remember him as a babe. I will want to hold him tight
to my skin and run my fingers through his silky hair and speak quietly
into his life.
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It’s
the simple moments that are the very best
Tenderness spilling over as you watch him rest
Hearing her giggle as you greet her each
morn
Pulling back the blanket spitty and worn
Squealing with glee as he rolls over at
last
Don’t look away; it happens so fast!
Memorizing her scent to learn it by heart
Snuggling and caressing each time you part
Laughing off the stains and trying new food
Enjoying how peas can lift his mood
Stopping the hurrying and slowing down a
bit
To let her touch velvet leaves or sandy grit
Don’t let it get away, this precious time
Life is too short to complain and whine
You’re low on patience and sleep sometimes
But life doesn’t offer a chance to rewind
So seize these moments every chance you get
Savor them, file them and live to expect…
That when you reach the end of this life’s
road
Motherhood will have made you richer, not old
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May your file of moments grow day by day as
you slow down and take pleasure in the gifts and blessings you’ve been
given.
Happy Mother’s Day to mommies
everywhere,
Vicki Norris