How do I rid my house of copious clutter?
02/15/04
By VICKI NORRIS
RESTORING ORDER
Q: After years in a large house, we are downsizing to a much
smaller place. What should do to begin paring down my belongings?
A: Before you begin, make a list of the categories of things
that have the greatest value to you, starting with the few things you'd
save in a fire. Once you know your priorities (memorabilia, special
books or outdoor gear, for example), you will have more clarity about
what to bring with you.
Next, tour your future home and assess the space possibilities and
constraints. Is most of the square footage in public spaces (like the
kitchen, living room and family room) or private spaces (bedrooms,
bathrooms and closets)? What is the available storage like? Is there a
garage, attic or basement? How many closets (including coat, hall and
linen closets) are available?
Asking these questions will help you set your expectations properly
at the beginning of your organizing process. You will be able to tell
how much furniture you can realistically bring and decide on the purpose
of each space in advance.
Q: There's a large amount of stuff to go through in a short
time. What's the best way to tackle it?
A: The best start to any organizing project, including
downsizing, is to dedicate enough time to the process. If you move in a
hurry, you may make snap decisions that you'll regret. Devise a timeline
from now to your moving day, and schedule the necessary steps on your
timeline.
If the thought of transferring the contents of your home to another
location terrifies you, it may save your nerves to hire a professional
organizing consultant to guide you through the process, maximize your
reduced square footage and help you execute a hassle-free move.
Q: Are there some rules of thumb you recommend when deciding
whether to keep something or get rid of it?
A: Before you toss an item in a box, determine what category
it belongs to and group it with its type. For example, even though
photos and memorabilia may be strewn throughout the house, you can set
up boxes in the living room into which all memorabilia will be added as
you pack. That way, you will know how much space your memorabilia
requires, and you can plan its future "home" in your new environment.
Grouping items by type can be shocking once you see all of your
similar belongings together. You may discover that you own a
disproportionate number of items in one category, like household linens,
for example. As you behold a gigantic mound of sheets, bedding and throw
pillows, you may be more willing to pare down that category.
Identifying your priorities, realistically evaluating the available
space in your new home and grouping your belongings by type before you
pack will make it easier to let go of your excess.
Q: Many of my things are antiques, and I'm tempted to keep
them in case they're worth something to me or an heir. Any tips you can
offer on that score?
A: Antiques have at least two kinds of value: retail value and
sentimental value. You must first determine which type of value your
antiques offer. If you are keeping something simply because it "cost a
lot" or "might be worth something someday," then you are banking on its
retail value. You can only cash in on this purported value, however, if
you are willing to part with the goods.
In my work as a professional organizer, I find that sentimental value
is often much more compelling to people than retail value. If you are
holding onto items because they evoke precious memories, that is a
legitimate reason for retaining the item, within reason. No
conscientious friend or professional should advise you to dispose of an
object if it would break your heart.
Q: What are the pros and cons of having a garage sale vs.
donating the items to a charity?
A: I typically advise my clients (who are overwhelmed by
clutter already) against garage sales.
For those with little time to spare and who relate their time to
money (which seems to be most of us these days), a garage sale can sap
your time and energy for relatively little compensation. However, if you
have items of great value, it might be worthwhile to hold a brief,
well-advertised sale or to consign the items. Be sure to evaluate all
hidden costs of doing so, such as time spent preparing advertising,
pricing items, borrowing and returning tables, and cleaning up.
Donating to charity is a win-win choice. Groups often gratefully
receive items you no longer use or want, and you get a tax deduction. To
learn how to locally donate everything from electronics to musical
instruments, visit the donation connection at
www.restoringorder.com,
under the "resources" button.
Q: When downsizing, do your clients sometimes have to undergo
a second round of sifting through and getting rid of stuff once they
move into the new place?
A: Clients who are downsizing have engaged our services
because they have reached a point where their clutter is costing them
time, space and peace of mind. They want to make a fresh start in their
new home.
At first, the sorting and purging process can be a struggle because
it involves making decisions that have been delayed and facing years of
backlog. However, as the process gains momentum, clients begin to feel
more freedom with less stuff and are liberated to pursue the things that
really matter to them (which is really why many people downsize in the
first place). Newly equipped with organized thinking, they make better
decisions about accumulation and tend to thin out their possessions on a
more regular basis to avoid returning to the burden they left behind.
Vicki Norris is founder and president of Restoring Order, a
professional organizing company based in Portland. Norris presents a
monthly organizing segment on KATU's "AM Northwest" and is a regular on
HGTV's "Mission: Organization." She can be contacted at 503-625-5774 or
vicki@restoringorder.com.